Trying things is a necessary part of feeling like you're taking advantage of being alive.
Not doing things you disagree with is a prerequisite to self respect.
When you take a step back and stop trying to actively manage all of these things and just play your role, you realize that most people around you are just playing the roles they've selected for themselves.
I sometimes wonder how others justify their double standards.
Then I think, I wonder how many and what specific double standards I ignore.I used to then say, "Let's sit down and discuss." The correct course of action is not paying it much mind.